Learn the Existing Relationship Tarot Spread

What is the Existing Relationship Spread?

The Existing Relationship Spread provides insight into the energies within an existing relationship, whether it is romantic, platonic, familial, or business-oriented. This spread helps you understand the dynamics and nuances of your connection with another person.

How to do the Existing Relationship Spread.

To perform this spread, follow these steps:

1. Shuffle the Deck: Begin by clearing your mind and setting an intention about a person or relationship.

2. Draw 5 cards in the pattern laid out.

1. You: Your role in the relationship or how you feel about the relationship.

2. Them: Their role or how they’re feeling.

3. The Connection:** A bond that helps hold the relationship together, such as a shared experience, commonality, past moment, or current situation.

4. Strengths: One of the best aspects of the relationship, whether a present strength or a future potential.

5. Weaknesses: A challenging aspect of the relationship that may need work.

3. Interpret the Cards: Reflect on the meaning of each card and how it relates to the position it occupies. Consider how your role, their role, and the connection contribute to the overall dynamic. Be sure to assess the strengths to appreciate what’s working well and identify the weaknesses to understand areas that need improvement.

“Look for Connections: Pay attention to how the cards relate to each other, noting any repeating themes or symbols.”

— Made Musings

This spread serves as a guide to better understand the fluid nature of relationships. While you cannot control the actions and thoughts of others, you can influence the energy you bring to the relationship. By approaching the dynamic with empathy and mindfulness, you can take steps to enhance and positively change your relationship.

Tips and Tricks for Mastering a Tarot Spread

With practice, these tarot spreads can become a quick and effective tool for your daily Tarot readings. Here are some tips to help you make the most of your reading:

• 1. Understand Each Position.

  Familiarize yourself with the meaning of each position in the spread.

• 2. Look for Connections.

  Pay attention to how the cards relate to each other, noting any repeating themes or symbols.

• 3. Consider Card Combinations.

  Some combinations can significantly alter interpretations, like multiple Major Arcana cards indicating major life events.

• 4. Trust Your Intuition.

  While traditional meanings are important, your intuition plays a crucial role.

• 5. Take Your Time.

  Don’t rush; thoroughly interpret each card and its position to capture important nuances.